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Many times in a husband-wife relationship, the friendship of the partner becomes the cause of sourness in the relationship. Especially if the woman’s friend is a man, then a worm of doubt starts creeping in the husband’s mind.
Today the discussion in the chat room was about a couple where the wife was complaining that the husband didn’t like her friendship with his male friend. The relationship counselor Dr. Madhavi Seth understood the woman’s complaint and gave answers.
My childhood friend’s husband does not like a broken eye. We grew up together, studied together, chose our careers together, but the idea of marrying each other never occurred to us. We are both married. We are good friends and want to stay good friends forever.
Before marriage, I had told my husband about our friendship. He had no complaints then. But now a worm of doubt has begun to creep into my husband’s mind about my friend. Can’t a man be a woman’s best friend?
Friendship has nothing to do with sex. Friendship can happen with anyone, at any time. Childhood friendships are even deeper. People who grow up together are each other’s companions in joys and sorrows and understand each other’s feelings very well. Friendships of such people become deeper with time.
Relationship status changes with age
If boys and girls become friends in childhood and play together, then no one has any complaints. But as soon as they enter adolescence, girls especially begin to be instructed to stay away from boys. Because of this, growing children are unable to understand what happened that they can no longer be friends.
However, now there has been a lot of change in society. Now the friendship between a teenage boy and a girl is not considered bad either. But the number of people who think like that is still less. Even today, most people do not consider the friendship between a boy and a girl right.
Problem with a woman’s male friend
There has been a lot of change in the thinking of young people today. They talk openly about their exes before marriage. Some youth have no problem with this. But many are not able to accept it easily. The husband’s talk about his ex is still digested, but not even the wife’s male friend is tolerated.
For some time in the initial period of marriage, the husband can tolerate the friendship of the wife with a man out of respect for himself, but after some time, the husband starts to complain.
going to meet a husband
If your husband does not like your friendship with your male friend, then explain your friendship to him lovingly. Tell them what difference it makes whether the friendship is with a man or a woman.
If your husband is still struggling with your friendship, then never go meet your friend secretly from him. This will make them doubt your relationship. You should go with your husband to meet your male friend or invite him to meet you at your home together with your wife. This will give your husband the satisfaction that you are meeting your male friend in front of him.
do not leave the matter incomplete
Many women even stop meeting and talking to their male friends to avoid their husband’s ridicule. But it’s not right to suddenly break friendship with your best friend like this. Such behavior is not good for friendship.
If your husband doesn’t like your male friend and you want to make another one to keep peace in the house, then tell your friend about it. Tell your male friend that your husband doesn’t like your friendship. The friendship between the two of you will never diminish, but for the sake of your husband’s happiness, you will have to stop meeting and talking to him.
This way, by saying the right thing, your mind will become lighter and your friend will have no complaint against you either. By suddenly stopping the conversation, your friend will not understand why you are behaving this way. If you tell a friend about your situation, he will surely understand your problem.
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