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18 minutes agoAuthor: Kamla Badoni
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When two people decide to spend their lives together, two families also come together. Many new relationships are also formed. Their two friends also become friends with each other. But when these two people decide to separate, the relationship is never the same.
Today the discussion in the chat room was about a couple where the husband and wife want a divorce, but want to avoid blaming each other in the divorce process. The relationship counselor Dr. Madhavi Seth understood the problem and suggested the right solution.
We both want a divorce, but want the dignity to stay in the relationship even after separation. Instead of blaming each other, let us part peacefully. Is it possible?
If you both believe you can no longer live together. They both tried their best. But if there is no improvement in the relationship, then the best option is to separate peacefully. But both of you should know that the decision of divorce is not easy for the man or the woman.
parting manners
In the process of getting a divorce, many husband and wife even make false allegations against each other. They feel that now that the relationship is over, all the anger in their mind should be taken out. But these are not parting manners.
Today you are divorcing the person you once considered your life partner. On whom he had lavished all his love. Respect that love when parting. Don’t let the divorce process create so much bitterness in your mind, whenever you meet tomorrow, it becomes difficult to make eye contact.
It is not so easy to forget each other after a divorce. So, don’t do any such behavior or action that you will feel embarrassed when you remember tomorrow.
divorce is expensive
Divorce is not just the separation of two people. Divorce causes a huge financial, mental and emotional loss for two families. In this, there are many losses at the same time – money, relationships, children, social status. That is why the law also asks to think again before taking a divorce.
Acting happiness is not real happiness
Many people fake acting to show themselves happy after a divorce, so they can prove the correctness of their decision. But what is the need to act happy in front of others, when you are not happy in your heart. Even if you share pictures of your happy mood on social media, it will not improve your health or reduce your stress.
consequences of divorce
Think ahead about the problems you will face after a divorce so you can prepare yourself for it. Divorce has a big impact on physical, mental and emotional health. It also affects family and social status. In such situations, sometimes it becomes difficult to control yourself. If you are prepared for these situations in advance then its impact on you will be less.
Do not allow bitterness to develop in children’s minds
Children suffer a lot after their parents’ divorce. Children do not understand who is considered right and who is wrong. Many parents encourage children against their partners. It has a bad effect on the innocent minds of children. They lose faith in the marriage relationship. When such children grow up, they cannot trust anyone quickly for marriage.
Do not share with family and friends
When a husband and wife separate, family members, relatives and friends do not understand with whom to keep the relationship and with whom to end the relationship. Many couples deliberately set a condition in front of their family members, relatives and friends that they can only have a relationship with one of the husband and wife, not with both. But it’s not right to do that. Don’t make your family, relatives and friends victims of your separation. Give them the freedom to talk to either husband or wife whenever they want.
If two people cannot live together despite trying hard, then there is no harm in separation. But instead of proving each other bad in the divorce process, the best practice of separation is to separate peacefully with consent.
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The truth about women who are beaten by their husbands, there are 3 categories of women who are beaten by their husbands, definite ways to avoid physical abuse
It is not wise to maintain a relationship after being beaten. Not only husband and wife, no one has the right to raise hands on anyone. In many homes, women silently suffer the beatings of their husbands, but this does not go outside the house. Educated women are also beaten by their husbands, but don’t talk about it to anyone. She cares about her reputation, but by promoting it many times she gets herself into trouble. Then when the man raises his hand in front of someone, the secret is revealed. Then it becomes difficult for them to bear it.
Today the discussion in the chat room was about a woman who is beaten by her husband every day and is still confused about whether she should break up with her husband or not. Relationship counselor Dr Madhavi Seth explains the reasons for physical abuse between husband and wife and ways to avoid it. To read the full news click here.
Ruckus over menstrual pain, men make fun of women’s periods, women themselves do not know the consequences of hormonal imbalance.
If the wife gets angry with the dual responsibility of home and job due to lack of support from her husband or the female boss reprimands her for not completing the work on the deadline, instead of accepting their mistake, many men blame it on the woman’s ‘PMS’ (Pre Menstrual Syndrome).
The greater irony is that most women themselves are not aware of these changes taking place in their bodies. They don’t know that this anger or irritability is due to PMS.
The chat room today was discussing a couple where the wife complains that the husband makes fun of her instead of understanding her PMS. The relationship counselor Dr. Madhavi Seth tells the truth about hormonal imbalance in women’s bodies. To read the full news click here.
